No need for Prince Charming

S1:E36 – Haylee & Neve

From IVF setbacks to a life-saving early birth, Haylee shares her emotional journey to motherhood with her daughter, Neve.
In this powerful and emotional episode of No Need for Prince Charming, Haylee shares her extraordinary journey to becoming a solo mum by choice to her daughter, Neve. Haylee opens up about the challenges she faced: navigating IVF, coping with miscarriage, and pushing through setbacks during the COVID-19 pandemic.
The story takes a dramatic turn as Haylee details her pregnancy complications, including major placenta previa, high blood pressure, and reduced movements. At just 33 weeks, Haylee’s instincts and courage saved Neve’s life, leading to an emergency C-section and an extended NICU stay.
Haylee’s story is a testament to the power of maternal instinct, resilience, and love. Her openness about postpartum anxiety, navigating life as a solo mum, and finding joy amidst the chaos will inspire anyone considering the solo motherhood path.
Key Takeaways:
Facing multiple IVF challenges, including miscarriage and chemical pregnancies.
Navigating pregnancy complications: major placenta previa, high blood pressure, and reduced fetal movements.
How Haylee’s instincts saved Neve’s life and led to an emergency early birth at 33 weeks.
The emotional journey of NICU and the challenges of bringing home a premature baby.
Overcoming postnatal anxiety and the importance of leaning on family for support
Your First Step Into Solo Motherhood
Curious about becoming a solo mum but don’t know where to begin?
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You don’t have to figure it out alone.
The Solo Mum Society Private Facebook Group is a warm, supportive space where you can connect with other women considering or living solo motherhood. It’s completely free and full of women who truly get it.👉 Join here
 
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S1:E35 – Sal, Edie & Hendrix

From deciding to go solo to navigating IVF across state borders, Sal shares her journey to motherhood with her two children, Edie and Hendrix.
In this heartfelt episode of No Need for Prince Charming, Sal shares her inspiring and candid journey to becoming a solo mum by choice to her two children, Edie and Hendrix. Growing up believing motherhood required a man, Sal never saw children in her future until her perspective shifted.
Sal dives into her unique experience of navigating fertility treatment across state borders, balancing financial pressures, and dealing with her PCOS diagnosis. She also opens up about managing pregnancy complications, a postpartum hemorrhage, and embracing the chaos of solo motherhood—all while leaning into her community for support. Sal’s practical approach to life, humour, and unwavering determination shine through as she reflects on the family she’s created and the future she envisions for her kids.
Key Takeaways:
Shifting perspectives on motherhood and realising it was possible without Prince Charming.
Navigating IVF in Adelaide while living in Melbourne to access affordable treatment.
Dealing with PCOS, a low ovarian response, and a challenging egg retrieval process.
The emotional and physical challenges of postpartum recovery and early motherhood.
Creating connections with donor siblings and building her family’s village.
SPONSOR OFFER:
Are you considering whether solo motherhood could be the right path for you to start your family? Check out the three week “Considering Solo Motherhood” course to learn all you need to know to make an informed and empowered decision. Find out more here.
SHARE YOUR STORY:
Have your own inspiring story to share? We’d love to hear from you! If you’re a solo mum or considering solo motherhood, reach out to share your journey on the podcast here.

S1:E34 – Alycia & Emmeline

How a dream, determination, and a little pixie dust led Alycia to motherhood through IUI with her daughter, Emmeline.
In this uplifting episode of No Need for Prince Charming, Alycia shares how a dream completely transformed her perspective on motherhood and led her to pursue solo motherhood by choice. Having spent most of her 20s and early 30s convinced she didn’t want children, Alycia’s life took a surprising turn after an unforgettable dream planted the seed for her future family.
Alycia dives into the practicalities of choosing a donor, navigating the IUI process, and managing the unexpected emotions of early pregnancy—all while balancing life in country WA. She shares how her background as an egg donor helped her confidently approach the process and why trusting herself was key to her journey. Her story is filled with humour, wisdom, and heartfelt reflections on life with her daughter, Emmeline, who has “found her voice” in the most adorable way.
Key Takeaways:
Transitioning from not wanting children to deciding to pursue solo motherhood at 35.
Navigating the donor sperm process and the realities of rural fertility treatment in Western Australia.
Getting pregnant on the first IUI attempt and dealing with pregnancy complications, including migraines and pelvic pain.
Balancing the unexpected joy and challenges of early solo parenting.
The importance of having strong support systems and solid foundations in place before starting the journey.
SPONSOR OFFER:
Are you considering whether solo motherhood could be the right path for you to start your family? Check out the three week “Considering Solo Motherhood” course to learn all you need to know to make an informed and empowered decision. Find out more here.
SHARE YOUR STORY:
Have your own inspiring story to share? We’d love to hear from you! If you’re a solo mum or considering solo motherhood, reach out to share your journey on the podcast here.

S1:E33 – Bess, Sadie & Nina

How Bess followed her heart, met her deadlines, and created a beautiful family with her two daughters, Sadie and Nina.
In this episode of No Need for Prince Charming, Bess shares her inspiring journey to solo motherhood with her daughters, Sadie and Nina. With a clear vision and a self-imposed timeline, Bess knew she wanted to pursue motherhood by age 30 if Prince Charming hadn’t come along.
Her story explores the success of her first IUI, the challenges of miscarriage, and the emotional ups and downs of trying for her second child through IVF. Bess speaks candidly about her experience navigating Tasmania’s donor system, connecting with other solo mums by choice, and eventually finding donor siblings for her daughters.
From navigating pregnancies with morning sickness to creating strong connections within her support network, Bess’ story highlights the importance of community, determination, and resilience. Her joy and gratitude for the life she’s created with her daughters shine through every step of her journey.
Key Takeaways:
Setting a clear timeline to pursue solo motherhood and sticking to it.
Navigating Tasmania’s local donor system and securing the same donor for siblings.
Overcoming miscarriage and finding hope in a second IUI success.
Transitioning to IVF and balancing the challenges of pregnancy, work, and finances.
Building connections with donor siblings and a thriving solo mum community in Tasmania.
SPONSOR OFFER:
Are you considering whether solo motherhood could be the right path for you to start your family? Check out the three week “Considering Solo Motherhood” course to learn all you need to know to make an informed and empowered decision. Find out more here.
SHARE YOUR STORY:
Have your own inspiring story to share? We’d love to hear from you! If you’re a solo mum or considering solo motherhood, reach out to share your journey on the podcast here.

S1:E32 – Celeste, Henry & Charlie

How Celeste turned a Hollywood idea into her reality, navigating IVF, sibling dreams, and solo parenting challenges.
In this episode of No Need for Prince Charming, Celeste shares her heartfelt and sometimes humorous journey to becoming a solo mum by choice to her two boys, Henry and Charlie. Inspired by a movie (yes, The Back-Up Plan), Celeste decided to pursue motherhood in her early 30s after realising time was passing by without Prince Charming.
From navigating long sperm donor waitlists and fertility processes to managing unexpected health challenges, Celeste’s story highlights the realities of IVF, the desire for siblings, and the highs and lows of solo parenting. With candid reflections on her two very different sons and her advice on choosing clinics and specialists, Celeste provides valuable insights for anyone considering the solo motherhood path. Her story is one of determination, resilience, and finding humour in the chaos of creating her perfect family.
Key Takeaways:
Deciding to pursue solo motherhood after a lightbulb moment watching The Back-Up Plan.
Navigating long donor waitlists and unexpected delays.
Managing IVF challenges, including multiple transfers, polyps, and NK cell issues.
The highs and lows of pregnancy, birth, and parenting with a wide age gap between siblings.
Valuable advice on selecting clinics, advocating for yourself, and preparing for unexpected costs.
SPONSOR OFFER:
Are you considering whether solo motherhood could be the right path for you to start your family? Check out the three week “Considering Solo Motherhood” course to learn all you need to know to make an informed and empowered decision. Find out more here.
SHARE YOUR STORY:
Have your own inspiring story to share? We’d love to hear from you! If you’re a solo mum or considering solo motherhood, reach out to share your journey on the podcast here.

S1:E31 – Nikeesha & Willa

How Nikeesha raced against time, embraced IVF, and navigated health challenges to welcome her daughter, Willa.
In this episode of No Need for Prince Charming, Nikeesha shares her remarkable journey to becoming a solo mum by choice to her daughter, Willa. At just 27, a diagnosis related to her rare form of arthritis meant her window to carry a child was rapidly closing. Determined not to miss out on motherhood, Nikeesha embarked on a whirlwind IVF journey that took just three months from decision to pregnancy.
She candidly discusses the challenges of navigating fertility treatments, the emotional strain of a rushed process, and the physical toll of pregnancy with her condition. Nikeesha also touches on the realities of a traumatic birth during the early days of the COVID-19 pandemic, the lack of postpartum support, and how her unwavering resilience—and the support of her dad—helped her thrive as a solo mum. Her story is one of strength, adaptability, and boundless love for her daughter, Willa.
Key Takeaways:
Making a swift decision to pursue solo motherhood due to a health diagnosis.
Navigating IVF at 27 and dealing with age-related assumptions from medical professionals.
Choosing a donor and experiencing a high-risk pregnancy.
Coping with a traumatic birth and postpartum challenges during the pandemic.
The importance of building a support network and prioritising self-care.
Your First Step Into Solo Motherhood
Curious about becoming a solo mum but don’t know where to begin?
Start with the Considering Solo Motherhood course—it’s designed to help you explore this path with clarity and confidence. You’ll learn about donor options, fertility treatments, emotional readiness, finances, and what life can really look like as a solo mum.👉 Get started now
 
You don’t have to figure it out alone.
The Solo Mum Society Private Facebook Group is a warm, supportive space where you can connect with other women considering or living solo motherhood. It’s completely free and full of women who truly get it.👉 Join here
 
Podcast listener bonus: 20% off fertility services! 
Thanks to our sponsor, City Fertility, you can access an exclusive 20% discount at clinics across Australia—just for being a listener.👉 Full details and discount code here

Bonus Episode 3 – Interview with a donor

From Facebook messages to donor agreements, Mike shares candid insights into becoming a known sperm donor for a couple in his social circle.
In this insightful bonus episode of No Need for Prince Charming, Alisha sits down with Mike—a known sperm donor who generously shares his side of the donor process. From being approached by a couple in his social circle to navigating donor counselling, IVF, and ongoing involvement in their child’s life, Mike offers a rare and heartfelt perspective.
Mike explains the initial conversations, the importance of donor agreements, and why counselling sessions were so valuable in setting clear expectations. He also reflects on the powerful emotions of meeting the baby for the first time and shares advice for anyone considering a known donor arrangement.
Whether you’re exploring the option of a known donor or just curious about the male perspective, this episode highlights the importance of communication, trust, and mutual respect in creating modern families.
Key Takeaways:
How Mike was approached to become a known donor via a Facebook message.
The role of donor counselling, agreements, and clear communication in setting expectations.
The IVF donation process, including screening, timelines, and legalities.
Mike’s involvement as a “donor dad” and his strong protective instincts after meeting the child.
Practical advice for solo mums considering a known donor, including the value of having tough conversations early.
SPONSOR OFFER:
Are you considering whether solo motherhood could be the right path for you to start your family? Check out the three week “Considering Solo Motherhood” course to learn all you need to know to make an informed and empowered decision. Find out more here.
SHARE YOUR STORY:
Have your own inspiring story to share? We’d love to hear from you! If you’re a solo mum or considering solo motherhood, reach out to share your journey on the podcast here.

S1:E30 – Maureen, Lana & Flynn

How Maureen broke barriers, navigated fertility laws, and built a beautiful family on her own terms.
In this inspiring episode of No Need for Prince Charming, Maureen shares her trailblazing journey to solo motherhood. When Maureen first decided to become a solo mum, using donor sperm was illegal for single women in Victoria. Determined to follow her dream, she navigated the legal loopholes, underwent IVF, and welcomed her daughter, Lana, and later her son, Flynn.
Maureen candidly discusses the challenges of making the decision, overcoming societal expectations, and the emotional toll of miscarriages. Her journey highlights the importance of resilience, self-advocacy, and building a support network—even when it comes from unexpected places. Maureen’s story is filled with humour, wisdom, and a powerful reminder that solo motherhood is not about doing it alone, but about creating a family in your own way.
Key Takeaways:
Deciding to pursue solo motherhood despite societal and legal barriers.
Navigating IVF in a time when it was illegal for single women in Victoria.
Choosing a donor and forming a unique connection with him years later.
Coping with miscarriages and finding the strength to try again.
Building an unexpected support network that helped her through tough times.
SPONSOR OFFER:
Are you considering whether solo motherhood could be the right path for you to start your family? Check out the three week “Considering Solo Motherhood” course to learn all you need to know to make an informed and empowered decision. Find out more here.
SHARE YOUR STORY:
Have your own inspiring story to share? We’d love to hear from you! If you’re a solo mum or considering solo motherhood, reach out to share your journey on the podcast here.

S1:E29 – Jane & Isabel

How Jane overcame IVF setbacks, found hope with a known donor, and welcomed her daughter, Isabel.
In this deeply personal episode of No Need for Prince Charming, Jane shares her inspiring journey to becoming a solo mum by choice to her daughter, Isabel. After years of knowing she wanted children but not finding the right relationship, Jane decided to pursue motherhood on her own terms. Her path included multiple rounds of IVF, the devastation of a miscarriage, and an unexpected yet perfect arrangement with a known donor—her friend’s brother.
Jane’s story highlights her unwavering determination to become a mum, the challenges of fertility treatments, and the beautiful bond she’s built with her daughter, her donor, and the extended donor family. Her candid discussion about navigating donor agreements, advocating for herself through setbacks, and creating a loving environment for Isabel is both heartfelt and empowering.
Key Takeaways:
Making the decision to pursue solo motherhood in her late 30s.
Navigating IVF, low AMH reserves, and the emotional toll of failed cycles.
Experiencing a miscarriage and finding hope in the process.
Choosing a known donor and managing expectations around involvement.
Building a supportive village for Isabel with family, friends, and her donor's family.
SPONSOR OFFER:
Are you considering whether solo motherhood could be the right path for you to start your family? Check out the three week “Considering Solo Motherhood” course to learn all you need to know to make an informed and empowered decision. Find out more here.
SHARE YOUR STORY:
Have your own inspiring story to share? We’d love to hear from you! If you’re a solo mum or considering solo motherhood, reach out to share your journey on the podcast here.

S1:E28 – Nat, Harry & Hudson

How Nat overcame a lifetime of endometriosis, fertility challenges, and heartbreak to welcome her two beautiful boys.
⚠️ Trigger Warning - This episode discusses topics such as ectopic pregnancy, pregnancy complications, and medical trauma. Please take care while listening.
In this episode of No Need for Prince Charming, Nat takes us on a deeply personal journey through a lifetime of challenges with endometriosis, fertility struggles, and heartbreak. Diagnosed with a 3.5kg ovarian mass as a teenager, Nat spent years battling surgeries, adhesions, and blocked fallopian tubes. After failed relationships and a traumatic ectopic pregnancy during IVF, Nat shares how she found the strength to push forward, advocating for herself and her dream of motherhood.
Nat’s story explores the emotional rollercoaster of heterotopic pregnancy, complex fertility treatments, and the eventual joy of welcoming her two boys, Harry and Hudson, into the world. She highlights the importance of choosing the right specialists, financial preparation, and cherishing every moment of motherhood.
For anyone facing fertility challenges or considering solo motherhood, Nat’s journey offers inspiration, hope, and a reminder that miracles can happen—even against the odds.
Key Takeaways:
Living with endometriosis and its impact on fertility from a young age.
Facing blocked fallopian tubes, surgeries, and repeated IVF cycles.
The emotional and physical toll of heterotopic pregnancy and ectopic loss.
Successfully conceiving her two sons, Harry and Hudson, through IVF.
Tips for advocating for yourself in fertility treatments and financial planning.
SPONSOR OFFER:
Are you considering whether solo motherhood could be the right path for you to start your family? Check out the three week “Considering Solo Motherhood” course to learn all you need to know to make an informed and empowered decision. Find out more here.
SHARE YOUR STORY:
Have your own inspiring story to share? We’d love to hear from you! If you’re a solo mum or considering solo motherhood, reach out to share your journey on the podcast here.